Repair Over Punishment: Your First 90 Days

Repair Over Punishment · Cultural Proficiency Institute · Saint Louis University

Your first 90 days

Moving discipline from compliance to connection: three 30-day moves for each role, each tied to an Essential Element of Cultural Proficiency, and a 30-minute protocol that keeps your team doing the work every month.

The plan

Notice. Repair. Share.

Teachers take the educators row. Principals and district leaders take the leaders row. Teacher leaders often take both. Write your own move in the last row.

Days 1–30NoticeAssessing cultural knowledge
Days 31–60RepairAdapting to diversity
Days 61–90ShareInstitutionalizing cultural knowledge
EducatorsClassroom
Pull your own removals by student group. Ask one restorative question before every removal.
Hold a re-entry conversation after every removal. Open one weekly circle.
Bring your data and one student story to your team. Propose one change to a discipline practice.
LeadersBuilding & district
Pull building removals by group, staff, and category. Listen for the barriers in meetings.
Lead one restorative conversation with staff. Protect PLC time for data and dialogue.
Share the pattern with staff and families. Revise one policy and put it in writing.
My moveWrite it in
Days 1–30NoticeAssessing cultural knowledge
Educators
Pull your own removals by student group. Ask one restorative question before every removal.
Leaders
Pull building removals by group, staff, and category. Listen for the barriers in meetings.
My move
Days 31–60RepairAdapting to diversity
Educators
Hold a re-entry conversation after every removal. Open one weekly circle.
Leaders
Lead one restorative conversation with staff. Protect PLC time for data and dialogue.
My move
Days 61–90ShareInstitutionalizing cultural knowledge
Educators
Bring your data and one student story to your team. Propose one change to a discipline practice.
Leaders
Share the pattern with staff and families. Revise one policy and put it in writing.
My move
Take it to your team

A 30-minute team protocol

Run it monthly with a PLC, grade-level team, or administrative team. The bar shows how the half hour is spent.

  1. 3 min

    Ground

    Read the guiding principles aloud. Each person names the one that challenges them most.

  2. 8 min

    Look

    Review one month of removals by student group and category. Describe the pattern before explaining it.

  3. 7 min

    Name

    Pick two recent referrals. Name the temperature and the root of each.

  4. 8 min

    Discuss

    Choose one discussion question from the worksheet for your arena.

  5. 4 min

    Commit

    Each member names one practice to change before the next meeting.

Open every meeting by asking what happened with last month’s commitments.

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